My phone ranged “hello”
The voice” hello how are you”
I can recognize the voice but was slightly confused so I said” who is it?”
The voice” ha ha ha”
Me:”Aryan?”
The voice” yes”
Me: "Whose no is this?”
Aryan:” Didi (elder sister) new no”
Me: "ok, when u coming?”
Aryan:”tomorrow”
Aryan is my nephew (my eldest sis son). He is studying in Bishop Cotton’s boarding, Shimla.
Sister and Brother-in-law expired last year leaving their kids Aryan(12yrs) and
Anouska(17 yrs) in this malicious world. It’s been tuff time since then.
Life took to a downslide which still continues. The nastiest segment continues,
some left us some unfaltered to come back again. My doors are opened for
anyone to enter and exit. Probably knowing that come what may &
what ever it takes I have to live and continue fighting, no matter what.
The purpose of this post was to tell u an interesting story about Aryan.
Once I asked him” what you want to become in Life?”
He said “ A detective”
I was flabbergasted and asked “why?”
He said: " grand pa & you say mom and dad has gone to God, so I want to be detective
and find out where he in fact lives”
I again was taken aback & asked ” But why”
Aryan: “ to ask why he(God) took my parents”
There was very less I could have said after that, so just hugged him.Its not
tuff time which breaks us but more than that approach of people around you.
Some decided to leave some joined and life moves on.
Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
agree wid this
ReplyDeleteLife is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
very less one can say bout it. God bless u n ur family
ReplyDeleteTake care.
well very brave of u n ur nephew n neice 2 fite all out
ReplyDeleteGod bless u all
just wondering what goes inside kids mind who is at ground zero facing it....
ReplyDelete@shreya
ReplyDeleteThx 4 support
@nishi
ReplyDeleteeven i wonder same wats going on his mind as he is his very fragile age
@nidhi&paayal
ReplyDeleteThx
thx 4 sharing such a xperience
ReplyDeleteGod bless ya
speechless..literally
ReplyDeletetruely we are stangest
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing the story, which I am sure is very personal to you.
ReplyDeleteBeing someone, who lost her father at almost the same age as Aryan I can totally understand what he might be going through especially since his is a loss more severe than mine.
Just let him know that his parents chose to go to God to ensure that they can always remind Him to take care of Aryan and his sister.
God bless the lil kids.
Sorry for your loss.
@priyanka
ReplyDeletethx 4 supportive words
really very less one can do ven u have 2 face such situtaion...thx 4 sharing this with rest
ReplyDeleteGod bless ya
wat 2 say...thx 4 sharing tek care
ReplyDeletethx 4sharing such xperience
ReplyDeletedefinetely dificult question 2 answer....
ReplyDeletethnx 4 sharing dis & whatever u deduced is perfectly true abt lyf nd humans.
ReplyDeleteIt was rlly touching....
ReplyDeletethanxx for sharing.
nice to read..
ReplyDeletefirst time visitor of blog n must say its fantastic n very informative blog hats off 2 u all
very touchin indeed
ReplyDeletetht was rlly vry touchng
ReplyDeletent evry bdy has tht courage 2 share wat they feel.
thnx 4 sharing
Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans. Agree wid this
ReplyDeletenice post...thx 4 sharing sir
ReplyDeletevery touching from a very emotional person, being us college friend i know how tuff it wud have been 4 u 2 share all these
ReplyDeleteTake care
A sweet story about your nephew. You did the right thing: just to hug him. Some questions cannot be answered.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your visit to my blog posts today. I appreciate your kind comments.
I was intrigued by your red candle showing your were following my blog. Now I'm very glad I found this link into your mind all those miles away from where I live. Maybe you would understand the importance of these words I once wrote:-
ReplyDelete'That which is sought if often elusive. That which comes unbidded is reality before it is recognised.'
Here's to red candles!
Good to see that so many people are touched and concern, but the fact it one has to deal with the loss all alone.
ReplyDelete“. . . as they die, the ones we love, we lose our witnesses, our watchers, those who know and understand the tiny little meaningless patterns, those words drawn in water with a stick. And there is nothing left but the endless flow.”
Poignant...
ReplyDeleteLife is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
ReplyDeleteAGREED
Thx 4 sharing n showing courage 2 face it n share wid all
ReplyDeleteRegards
@Pat - An Arkansas Stamper
ReplyDeleteThx 4 valuable comments and visit
@jinksy
ReplyDeleteThx a lot mam 4 us precious comment and visit.Ur comments are valuable so keep visiting
Regards
@tripti
ReplyDeleteYes Tripti mam agree wid u at ground zero we have to face alone BUT also supprot at crucial time is very soothing
Thx & Regrds
Heart melting story, indeed .. i wonder how much aryan's life have been sabotaged by such tragedy . I' m glad u are there to support him by all means.. Do take care of urself as well..
ReplyDeletewondering wat goes in a kid mind all d time.Thx 4 sharing those very personal moments
ReplyDeleteTake care
speechless after reading
ReplyDeleteLife is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
ReplyDeleteNiconclusion of very emotional post
Regards
emotional read
ReplyDeleteThx 4 sharing
surely no one can read kid's mind....
ReplyDeleteBrave u to share this. God Bless
ReplyDeleteLovely blog, good work
Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans...so true
ReplyDeletenice 2 se other side of u avinash
ReplyDeleteGod bless
ReplyDeleteemotional read..really some times v adults also cant answer questions of kids...agreed
ReplyDeleteWHY?
ReplyDeleteWhy did death have to come knocking when they are still so young?
cant say much
ReplyDeletei knw hw tuff it wud have been 4 u 2 write this particular experience. But showing courage is wat always expected from u.
ReplyDeletethx 4 sharing such a personal experience
ReplyDelete@ria
ReplyDeleteThx 4 visit n comments
@alec
ReplyDeletethx alec
@IndraniThe smae question i and most of us ask...with no answera all d time
ReplyDeletethx 4 ur commnet
thx preeti,rashmi,prachi n all
ReplyDeleteLife is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.....so true bout us
ReplyDeletetake care
ReplyDeleteYea i agree with aryan.....why does God leave little children orphaned when they need them most??? a very soul touching story.
ReplyDeletenice emotional personal experience...very less one can say on it
ReplyDeleteThx 4 sharing
Regards
Sometimes we faced situation that makes us speechless....
ReplyDeleteBut time and tide wait for none and also time is the greatest ointment for any wound.....
Nice post....
My close pal is a 5-time guinness holder from navi Mumbai. His brother, brother's wife (would-be-mom) and baby girl were travelling to Shirdi when their vehicle met with an accident and they passed away leaving the girl. When I tried to console my friend on phone from sharjah his words were: "Another challenge in life." He is such a great guy..And god bless aryan and yr near and dear ones..i am confused at such happenings but like socrates, i can only say, i know nothing.
ReplyDelete@nitu
ReplyDeletesome questions are such we will nvr know it answers
@amit
ReplyDeleteu said rightly:-
But time and tide wait for none and also time is the greatest ointment for any wound.....
@Ramesh
ReplyDeletethx ramesh 4 ur support, comment n sharing ur own experience
very touching incident...
ReplyDeleteLife is strange ..true-
I tried to post comment on ur recent post..about disability day,..but could not .
ReplyDeleteclicks send me back to same page with any comment box or pop up comment page.
@अल्पना वर्मा
ReplyDeleteThx 4 visit n comment
and regarding the problem with comment form on other blog, i have rectified it....thx as even i didnt knew it
Regards
emotional read
ReplyDeletethx 4 sharing very emotional experience
ReplyDeletegod blees
nice conclusion of emotional experience
ReplyDeleteLife is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
take care
ReplyDeletecourageous u
ReplyDeleteLife is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans
ReplyDeletethx 4 sharing
ReplyDeleteTake care
soul touching story...good one
ReplyDeleteemotional read thx 4 sharing
ReplyDeletespeechless....
ReplyDeleteaah life
ReplyDeleteLife is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
ReplyDeleteAGREED
Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans
ReplyDeleteSO TRUE
emotional read, really life is strange
ReplyDeletereally life is strange
ReplyDeletereally its strange
ReplyDeleteliked this post most lovely reading it
ReplyDeleteRegards