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Thursday, October 9, 2008

"Fall in love” or we “jump in love”.

-Puja's point
Peak time for love affairs is +2 and college. Many a times what happens is that we “fall in love” or we “jump in love”.
Falling is the natural way to go about it. Starting your relationship with out any intention of taking it forward, but you end up falling in love. This kind of love, even though the best love, is hard to succeed as falling is never calculated and we live in a very much calculated society. The pair may be able to live together if they get married, but the society will always stand between them.
You jump into love when you go and make a commitment to someone, with out knowing the person enough. It usually happens that you like the person at the first glance and then you go propose and make a commitment. Jumping with out calculation also results in failures, the same problems, social pressure and incompatibility may also result since the pairs jumped into the affair without giving it enough time.
So whats the best method.
So Id suggest that we crawl into love, taking a small step at a time. Do your analysis, whether this relationship if started will succeed, who all can come in between, and if everything can be managed, take the slow route, crawl in slowly so that you can crawl out at any point with out much of a damage.

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