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Monday, January 5, 2009

Detecting God

My phone ranged “hello”
The voice” hello how are you”
I can recognize the voice but was slightly confused so I said” who is it?”
The voice” ha ha ha”
Me:”Aryan?”
The voice” yes”
Me: "Whose no is this?”
Aryan:” Didi (elder sister) new no”
Me: "ok, when u coming?”
Aryan:”tomorrow”

Aryan is my nephew (my eldest sis son). He is studying in Bishop Cotton’s boarding, Shimla.
Sister and Brother-in-law expired last year leaving their kids Aryan(12yrs) and
Anouska(17 yrs) in this malicious world. It’s been tuff time since then.
Life took to a downslide which still continues. The nastiest segment continues,
some left us some unfaltered to come back again. My doors are opened for
anyone to enter and exit. Probably knowing that come what may &
what ever it takes I have to live and continue fighting, no matter what.
The purpose of this post was to tell u an interesting story about Aryan.
Once I asked him” what you want to become in Life?”
He said “ A detective”
I was flabbergasted and asked “why?”
He said: " grand pa & you say mom and dad has gone to God, so I want to be detective
and find out where he in fact lives”
I again was taken aback & asked ” But why”
Aryan: “ to ask why he(God) took my parents”

There was very less I could have said after that, so just hugged him.Its not
tuff time which breaks us but more than that approach of people around you.
Some decided to leave some joined and life moves on.
Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.

81 comments:

Er. Nidhi Mishra January 5, 2009 at 6:48 PM  

agree wid this
Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.

Er. Paayal Sharma January 5, 2009 at 7:03 PM  

very less one can say bout it. God bless u n ur family
Take care.

Shreya Rajput January 5, 2009 at 7:10 PM  

well very brave of u n ur nephew n neice 2 fite all out
God bless u all

Dr.Nishi Chauhan January 5, 2009 at 7:21 PM  

just wondering what goes inside kids mind who is at ground zero facing it....

अविनाश January 5, 2009 at 7:24 PM  

@nishi
even i wonder same wats going on his mind as he is his very fragile age

Er. Snigddha Aggarwal January 5, 2009 at 7:50 PM  

thx 4 sharing such a xperience
God bless ya

Priyanka Khot January 5, 2009 at 8:57 PM  

Thanks for sharing the story, which I am sure is very personal to you.

Being someone, who lost her father at almost the same age as Aryan I can totally understand what he might be going through especially since his is a loss more severe than mine.

Just let him know that his parents chose to go to God to ensure that they can always remind Him to take care of Aryan and his sister.

God bless the lil kids.

Sorry for your loss.

अविनाश January 5, 2009 at 9:42 PM  

@priyanka
thx 4 supportive words

Dr. Pragya bajaj January 5, 2009 at 9:47 PM  

really very less one can do ven u have 2 face such situtaion...thx 4 sharing this with rest
God bless ya

Rohit Sharma January 5, 2009 at 10:03 PM  

wat 2 say...thx 4 sharing tek care

Dr. Aradhna Awasthi January 5, 2009 at 11:11 PM  

definetely dificult question 2 answer....

richa January 5, 2009 at 11:14 PM  

thnx 4 sharing dis & whatever u deduced is perfectly true abt lyf nd humans.

ANKITA January 5, 2009 at 11:24 PM  

It was rlly touching....
thanxx for sharing.

Ritu January 5, 2009 at 11:35 PM  

nice to read..
first time visitor of blog n must say its fantastic n very informative blog hats off 2 u all

Anonymous,  January 5, 2009 at 11:43 PM  

very touchin indeed

nidhi January 5, 2009 at 11:53 PM  

tht was rlly vry touchng
nt evry bdy has tht courage 2 share wat they feel.
thnx 4 sharing

Dr. Pragya bajaj January 6, 2009 at 12:01 AM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans. Agree wid this

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 12:13 AM  

nice post...thx 4 sharing sir

Ashok January 6, 2009 at 12:45 AM  

very touching from a very emotional person, being us college friend i know how tuff it wud have been 4 u 2 share all these
Take care

Pat - An Arkansas Stamper January 6, 2009 at 12:56 AM  

A sweet story about your nephew. You did the right thing: just to hug him. Some questions cannot be answered.

Thank you for your visit to my blog posts today. I appreciate your kind comments.

jinksy January 6, 2009 at 5:13 AM  

I was intrigued by your red candle showing your were following my blog. Now I'm very glad I found this link into your mind all those miles away from where I live. Maybe you would understand the importance of these words I once wrote:-

'That which is sought if often elusive. That which comes unbidded is reality before it is recognised.'

Here's to red candles!

tripti January 6, 2009 at 8:05 AM  

Good to see that so many people are touched and concern, but the fact it one has to deal with the loss all alone.
“. . . as they die, the ones we love, we lose our witnesses, our watchers, those who know and understand the tiny little meaningless patterns, those words drawn in water with a stick. And there is nothing left but the endless flow.”

Dr. Palki Vajpayee January 6, 2009 at 12:44 PM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
AGREED

Dr. Neha Srivastav January 6, 2009 at 12:53 PM  

Thx 4 sharing n showing courage 2 face it n share wid all
Regards

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 12:57 PM  

@Pat - An Arkansas Stamper
Thx 4 valuable comments and visit

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 12:58 PM  

@jinksy
Thx a lot mam 4 us precious comment and visit.Ur comments are valuable so keep visiting
Regards

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 12:59 PM  

@tripti
Yes Tripti mam agree wid u at ground zero we have to face alone BUT also supprot at crucial time is very soothing
Thx & Regrds

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 1:02 PM  

Heart melting story, indeed .. i wonder how much aryan's life have been sabotaged by such tragedy . I' m glad u are there to support him by all means.. Do take care of urself as well..

Preeti January 6, 2009 at 1:07 PM  

wondering wat goes in a kid mind all d time.Thx 4 sharing those very personal moments
Take care

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 1:43 PM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
Niconclusion of very emotional post
Regards

Ria Taneja January 6, 2009 at 1:54 PM  

emotional read
Thx 4 sharing

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 2:01 PM  

surely no one can read kid's mind....

Alec January 6, 2009 at 2:14 PM  

Brave u to share this. God Bless

Lovely blog, good work

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 2:24 PM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans...so true

Prachi Pandey January 6, 2009 at 2:37 PM  

nice 2 se other side of u avinash

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 2:51 PM  

emotional read..really some times v adults also cant answer questions of kids...agreed

Indrani January 6, 2009 at 3:47 PM  

WHY?
Why did death have to come knocking when they are still so young?

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 5:20 PM  

cant say much

Anouska Awasthi January 6, 2009 at 5:33 PM  

i knw hw tuff it wud have been 4 u 2 write this particular experience. But showing courage is wat always expected from u.

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 6:24 PM  

thx 4 sharing such a personal experience

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 7:21 PM  

@IndraniThe smae question i and most of us ask...with no answera all d time
thx 4 ur commnet

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 7:21 PM  

thx preeti,rashmi,prachi n all

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 7:39 PM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.....so true bout us

nituscorner January 6, 2009 at 8:19 PM  

Yea i agree with aryan.....why does God leave little children orphaned when they need them most??? a very soul touching story.

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 8:55 PM  

nice emotional personal experience...very less one can say on it
Thx 4 sharing
Regards

Amit January 6, 2009 at 9:09 PM  

Sometimes we faced situation that makes us speechless....

But time and tide wait for none and also time is the greatest ointment for any wound.....

Nice post....

R. Ramesh January 6, 2009 at 9:12 PM  

My close pal is a 5-time guinness holder from navi Mumbai. His brother, brother's wife (would-be-mom) and baby girl were travelling to Shirdi when their vehicle met with an accident and they passed away leaving the girl. When I tried to console my friend on phone from sharjah his words were: "Another challenge in life." He is such a great guy..And god bless aryan and yr near and dear ones..i am confused at such happenings but like socrates, i can only say, i know nothing.

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 9:15 PM  

@nitu
some questions are such we will nvr know it answers

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 9:15 PM  

@amit
u said rightly:-
But time and tide wait for none and also time is the greatest ointment for any wound.....

अविनाश January 6, 2009 at 9:16 PM  

@Ramesh
thx ramesh 4 ur support, comment n sharing ur own experience

अल्पना वर्मा January 6, 2009 at 9:38 PM  

very touching incident...

Life is strange ..true-

अल्पना वर्मा January 6, 2009 at 9:40 PM  

I tried to post comment on ur recent post..about disability day,..but could not .
clicks send me back to same page with any comment box or pop up comment page.

Avinash January 6, 2009 at 11:10 PM  

@अल्पना वर्मा
Thx 4 visit n comment
and regarding the problem with comment form on other blog, i have rectified it....thx as even i didnt knew it
Regards

Anonymous,  January 6, 2009 at 11:40 PM  

emotional read

Anonymous,  January 7, 2009 at 3:09 AM  

thx 4 sharing very emotional experience
god blees

Anonymous,  January 7, 2009 at 11:12 AM  

nice conclusion of emotional experience

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.

Anonymous,  January 9, 2009 at 10:09 AM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans

Er. Puja Kapoor January 9, 2009 at 7:41 PM  

soul touching story...good one

Anonymous,  January 14, 2009 at 11:12 PM  

emotional read thx 4 sharing

Anonymous,  January 16, 2009 at 11:22 PM  

speechless....

Ria January 17, 2009 at 6:13 AM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans.
AGREED

Tracy January 18, 2009 at 12:15 PM  

Life is strange, stranger are the ways of it, strangest are we so-called humans
SO TRUE

Mehnaaz January 19, 2009 at 5:24 AM  

emotional read, really life is strange

Richa Saxena January 21, 2009 at 7:47 AM  

liked this post most lovely reading it
Regards

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